Going forward in time with alternative methods instead of going backwards with marriage counseling
Tendencies of the counselor while you are undergoing the marriage counseling are to draw you back towards the past. He will make you see the mistakes you made, the follies you committed and advise you on what not to do. However such counselor wills never advice you about what to do instead that could have a much more positive impact on your relationship.
And you will still have hope even when your counselor tells you that there is no more hope for you. Sometimes you go to such marriage counselor while your marriage is on the verge of breaking. Such counselor may be highly reputed and well known in the circle. Yet you may be disheartened to find that at the end of it the marriage counselor comes up with a negative reply showering water on all your aspirations of reviving the relationships.
You listen to such counseling and you will end up in divorce.
The alternative method of such devastator marriage counseling is a system where you learn that you two had never ever stopped from loving each other as dearly as you did in the beginning of your relationship. This would be a real positive approach where you improve your relationship without resorting to marriage counseling.
In your heart of hearts you never desire to sever your relationship and the alternative method gave you the right way to achieve your goal.
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